Remember, their
safety is your responsibility, and it must be made totally clear that
if you dont get the right responses (ie a pre arranged code word or
answer to a specific question that only you know), or no answer at
all, that you WILL call the authorities, and you will pass on all
the relevant information. Even if your agreement is that they will
call you, and they don't, you have to assume things might have gone
wrong, and make that call without further warning!
The police
in the UK are familiar with the concept of safecalls, and will assist
if asked, provided they are given enough information to act upon.
Remember: Safety
is paramount, do not assume things are ok, find out. If they don't
seem right, then take it upon yourself to make that call.
Finally, after
the meeting, it is important to know that the person is home, safe,
so a final check is a good idea, once they are home.
Should other
friends, from a chat room know about the meeting, a quick report to
them too might be appropriate to set their minds at rest.

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